We were greatly troubled to learn of another suicide of a young girl in the county. As survivors of a son’s suicide, we extend sympathy to all the survivors. We urge everyone who is close to them to provide comfort and support to the families, including siblings, and to friends of the victims.

Grieving is hard, painful work especially in the first few months to a year and, after 30 years, we know it doesn’t end. It does get bearable for most of us. We were able to get through it because of support we received from individuals in our work places and church and from friends.

People grieve in different ways and some don’t necessarily want to talk about what happened. Others find it helpful to discuss it. The important thing is to let them know you care, perhaps by going out for coffee or a meal or inviting them to dinner or by calling, texting or emailing just to ask how they’re doing.

Because our son’s death was a copycat suicide, we are concerned about all the young people in our community and hope that their families, friends and anyone who interacts with them will be observant and available to listen, if appropriate.

If you think someone may be contemplating suicide, help is available through the suicide prevention program at the Piñon Project, at Axis Health System and with other school counselors and healthcare providers.

Please help our community prevent any more youth suicides.

Jack and Judy Schuenemeyer

Cortez